Naturals Have Standards Too!

Ok ladies, todays post is something I feel very strongly about. For all of you consistent weave wearers who have just made"The Switch" have you noticed when you are out in public the caliber of men who try to "holla" are much different as a natural? This really pisses me off. Just because I'm natural does not mean every joe blow who comes by and drops a line is worth my time. I mean the stigma that comes along with the natural hair is crazy. When I was avidly wearing weave many men would not approach me because they thought i came off "unapproachable" or looked too "high maintenance" and quite frankly I miss those days of not being attacked by every person on the street who thinks "oh, she's natural I can probably get her." Call it stuck up or what you will, but I am not in the mood for it. Save the "my sista" comments and realize that natural women don't want busters either. Sometimes when I find myself trapped in a dead end conversation with someone who refuses to take the "I'm sorry I'm in a relationship" line as a "HELL NO" I wish I could just snap my fingers and my weave would appear and he would say "you ain't all that anyway" and just walk away. I'd take such ignorant backlash any day if it meant no more busters. SO MEN, be advised when dealing with women who are making "The Switch" the only thing that has changed is our hair and not our standards! #FMN

Signed- And you can take that to the bank!